It’s completely normal to struggle to follow through with eating your cum for the first time, even if the idea really turns you on. If you’re struggling, know you’re not alone. Most cum guzzlers, even the most experienced, usually start out at least a little hesitant at first. The reason behind everyone’s hesitance is different; keep reading, and know that you’re probably going to need to experiment a bit to find out what works best for you personally. For everyone though, I recommend eating your precum while you’re still masturbating to start out–and that’s your first step in your journey as a cum guzzler!
Trouble eating after you cum
This is probably the most common issue. Once you cum, you’re not as turned on, and consequently no longer hungry for cum. There are three ways around this. The first, which is easier for most new cum eaters, is to eat it while you’re still cumming. By that I mean getting your cum in your mouth as soon as you ejaculate. You can do this with a self facial, by assuming a posture similar to that of the plow pose in yoga and aiming your cum directly into your mouth, but I find that it’s usually easier to catch the cum in your hands. Alternate hands, and as soon as you feel any wetness on your fingers, put it in your mouth. Repeat with the other hand. Keep going until you’re done cumming. You likely won’t get every bit of it in your mouth, but that’s ok. The main goal is to get some in your mouth and swallow. If you managed that, then you’ve made some serious progress!
The second method is to ruin your orgasm. Meaning you’ll stop jerking off at just the right moment before cumming to ensure you feel no satisfaction from it and are still turned on. This is a fetish all its own, and may take some practice to do it intentionally. You might do this inadvertently with the first method, but I don’t recommend deliberately ruining your orgasms as a newbie to kink unless you already have some experience with ruined orgasms, or at least following JOI (jerk off instructions) obediently and easily. You might end up frustrated in all the wrong ways.
The third method involves saving your cum for later. You can then hold it in your mouth while jerking off, or simply take a shot of saved cum while you orgasm. You’ll need to store saved cum in the freezer. Keep reading for more info on saving cum in the section regarding taste issues.
Once you can consistently swallow some, then you can start working on eating a full load and swallowing after you cum. You may (or may not!) need to work on these things separately. Quick swallow vids are best for this; it’s typically best to leave the vids with a delay between cumming and eating until you have more experience and find it fairly easy to swallow it all.
Are you really turned on?
There are a multitude of videos and cam performers out there willing to give cum eating instructions, and it seems like the majority of them focus on blending CEI with humiliation. You might feel like you’re failing because you had orders and insults barked at you and you couldn’t follow through. But if you don’t like humiliation, this is not a good approach for you. Maybe you had an instructor who focused on coerced bisexuality, sissification, or used homophobic slurs. Perhaps they tried incorporating other things into your session that haven’t really been a major turn on to you. Again, if it’s not what really, really turns you on already, it isn’t going to work. I don’t recommend anyone use humiliation vids for their first time following through unless it has historically and consistently been a major turn on for them.
This goes for any other fetish as well. Make sure the instructions (and the instructor!) are incredibly arousing for you. It’s best to leave out other fetishes unless you know from experience you really, really enjoy them. You can try incorporating new things once you find it fairly easy to follow through.
Ugh! I hate the taste!
That’s pretty easy to fix. Put it into a food or beverage. Some people even develop a fetish for collecting cum so they can use larger amounts in recipes (or drink it straight up). Try eating fresh cum on a bite sized snack, like a cracker. You can also put it into a full meal–sandwiches, salads, and pasta all pair well with cum. Most people’s cum is salty, but some is sweet. Choose your accompanying food according to yours, and don’t be afraid to experiment. In my real world experiences, I’ve usually seen it paired with crackers and hummus, or mixed into a bowl of spicy instant noodles.
Beverages work too. You can put it into a bottle of water or other preferred cold beverage and drink it throughout the day, or cum into a small cup or shot glass to swallow it all in one gulp. Notice I said cold beverages–it will congeal in something hot. Cum is mostly protein, and you should expect it to behave like egg whites.
If you’re not going to eat (or otherwise use) your cum right away, you will need to store it in the freezer. Make sure no one else will stumble upon or use your frozen cum. Freezing cum changes the texture and flavor a bit; for some, this is enough to make it palatable. It becomes runnier when defrosted, and (for most) a bit sweeter.
Stop kink shaming yourself!
If you have any mental hangups about eating cum (e.g. preconceived notions about how it’s only for women or lbgtq+ people, not proper for men, etc., etc., etc.), you will need to work that out before you can swallow. Examine your beliefs, and get out of your own way. For example: is it because someone in your life would have a problem with it if they knew? Why should your family and friends know anything about what you do when you masturbate anyway? It’s none of their business! Or do you have some idea that eating cum is “gay” and that somehow makes it bad? Firstly, eating your own cum doesn’t make you gay anymore than playing with your own cock makes you gay; secondly, there is nothing inherently wrong with being gay or bisexual. Do you worry that it’s dangerous somehow? You can’t catch an STD from yourself, and millions of people eat cum on any given day–and yet they survived!
Whatever the case, think about why you have these beliefs that are preventing you from doing what you want to do. You might need to do some soul searching and undo some internalized homophobia or shame. Only once you move past these mental hangups and stop kink shaming yourself will you be able to eat your cum.
A final word of advice
Keep it fun. Don’t let yourself focus so much on your goal of swallowing that it becomes a chore. Jerking off is supposed to be fun! Have fun experimenting. Take a break from trying to swallow if it has already gotten to the point that you no longer enjoy masturbating. Remember: everyone’s journey is a little different, and some take longer than others. And that’s OK! The important thing is to have fun along the way.